(Seventh in a Series)
Help
Pride and independence often tell us the story we want to hear: we can do this on our own, we know we can; we don't need any help.
That may
well be true if you only have ten or so pounds to lose to get into last
year's dress for a party. Live on lemon juice for a week or two while
you treadmill yourself ragged for two hours a day. Sure, you'll get into
that dress-though you probably won't again a couple of weeks after the
party.
If, however, you're facing a long-term weight loss project
of fifty, seventy-five, one hundred pounds or more-and especially if
you've tried, and failed, a few times already-it's time to swallow your
pride and acknowledge that, yes, you could do with a hand here.
The
ability to accept help, freely and without resentment, is undervalued.
Few have it innately. Most have to work at it. And as a long-term
dieter, you had better acquire this skill sooner rather than later. Once
you have come to terms with needing a hand, however, you will find that
such hands abound.
Weight Loss Sites
This paragraph
opens with a warning: there are so many Internet sites devoted to weight
loss that you can easily spend the rest of your days perusing them all
and never quite get around to losing weight.
Also, many weight
loss sites are pure money making schemes, praying on your need (getting
more and more desperate as time, and failed diets, pile up) to lose
weight. The best way to detect such sites is by their promises, which
are always a little over the top, and always stress how easy it will be,
if only you spend $50 a week with them.
This is a dead giveaway,
for long-term weight loss is not easy. But there are many helpful sites
as well, providing all manner of tools and tips. FitDay and SparkPeople
are two of the best. There are, however, many excellent sites. Just
search for what you need in terms of information and support, and watch
out for outlandish promises.
Nutritionists
If you
have the financial resources to afford one, or the insurance coverage to
provide one, a nutritionist can be of invaluable help to you. An
experienced nutrition professional has been there and done that with
almost any scenario and can provide excellent, and real, advice to
follow.
Doctors
It goes without saying that if you
have medical problems, or even concerns, of any kind, you need to
consult-and gain the support of-your doctor before you set out on a long
term weight loss program. Many medical problems-although causes may
appear to lie elsewhere-tend to resolve once you reach a healthy weight,
for the body is an amazingly efficient self-healing organism.
Once
it no longer has to cope with and battle the ills of being overweight,
it can turn its attention to other, medical, problems, and more often
than not successfully resolve them. Still, you need to enlist your
doctor on your team. If your current doctor is less than enthusiastic
about your weight loss efforts, it might serve you well to recruit a new
one who is. The support guidance of a medical professional is an
invaluable resource.
Loved Ones
Possibly the most
important support you will need, especially over the course of a
long-term weight loss project, is members of your family and friends,
whether an old roommate, significant other, co-worker, parent, or child.
Knowing that those who love your are squarely in your court and willing
to do anything to help you, can make all the difference; can in fact,
make or break the success of long-term weight loss.
Successful Dieters
Another
priceless source of support comes from those who have successfully lost
the amount of weight you are setting out to lose. They have been there
and done that on the field of battle, and they have won. They know what
problems you will face, and they know how to overcome them.
Not
unlike sponsors in an Anonymous group, they can offer you very real and
applicable advice to virtually any situation. And they will, just like
your loved ones, be firmly on your side against the mountain that often
seems quite impossible to climb. Seek them out by any means, and stay in
weekly, if not daily contact, to benefit from their experience. It
cannot be overvalued.
Help Revisited
The fact that
you may have tried many times to lose weight, but has yet to succeed, is
a clear indication that pride must be swallowed, and help must be
sought and accepted-whether freely or grudgingly, it doesn't really
matter. This can be hard to do, but for the sake of your own health and
happiness, you must do it; you'll find that it is nowhere near as hard
as trying to go it alone.
The multiTRIM Diet
All diet plans--except for the outright fraudulent ones, and be warned: they abound--have as their goal for you to burn more calories than you consume. Possibly the most sensible plan we have seen in recent years is the multiTRIM diet which supplies all needed nutrients to maintain health and ease hunger in a fifteen calories meal-replacement drink.
All diet plans--except for the outright fraudulent ones, and be warned: they abound--have as their goal for you to burn more calories than you consume. Possibly the most sensible plan we have seen in recent years is the multiTRIM diet which supplies all needed nutrients to maintain health and ease hunger in a fifteen calories meal-replacement drink.
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